I cannot count the number of times I've read/heard something along the lines of, "And then this HUGE thing happened/there was this epiphany/everything suddenly made sense/everything changed and from that day on everything was different."
I'm not denying the fact that sometimes life changes happen suddenly. But 99% of the time I'm really comfortable throwing down the bullshit card. It may have occurred to them all of the sudden but the actual change took time. And there were slip ups. And it settled. And became normal.
I'm not discouraged when it takes a little time for my life to change as a change settles itself into my mind. And I don't want you to be either.
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